Friday, 23 October 2015

မနက္ျဖန္အတြက္ လမ္းညႊန္မ်ား

၁။ ေန႕စဥ္ လူသံုးဦး ကုိ ခ်ီးက်ဴးစကားေျပာပါ။
၂။ အနည္းဆံုး တစ္နွစ္ တစ္ခါ ေနထြက္တာကို ၾကည့္ပါ။
၃။ ရတာထက္ ပုိမသံုးနဲ႕။
၄။ ေတြ႕တဲ့ လူတိုင္းကုိ ကုိယ့္ကုိ ဆက္ဆံ ေစခ်င္သလို ဆက္ဆံပါ။
၅။ မိတ္ေဆြသစ္ ဖြဲ႕ပါ။ မိတ္ေဆြေဟာင္းကိုလည္း ခ်စ္ျမတ္နုိးပါ။
၆။ လွ်ိ႕ဝွက္ခ်က္ ကို ထိန္းသိမ္းပါ။
၇။ ေက်းဇူးတင္ေၾကာင္းစာကုိ ခ်က္ခ်င္းေရးပါ။
၈။ အမွားကုိ ဝန္ခံပါ။
၉။ ရဲရင့္ပါ။ မရဲေသာ္ ရဲေယာင္ေဆာင္ပါ။ဘယ္သူမွ ခြဲခြဲျခားျခား မသိပါ။
၁၀။ ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ လိမ္လည္လွည့္ဖ်ားမႈ မလုပ္ပါနဲ႕။
၁၁။ နားေထာင္တတ္ပါေစ။ အခြင့္အလမ္းဟာ တခါတရံမွာတံခါးကို အင္မတန္ ညင္သာစြာ ေခါက္တာပါ။
၁၂။ တျခားလူေတြရဲ႕ ေမွ်ာ္လင့္ခ်က္ေတြကို မပိတ္ပင္ပါနွင့္။ သူတို႕မွာ အဲဒါပဲရိွတာ ျဖစ္နုိင္ပါတယ္။
၁၃။ အသိပညာ နဲ႕ သတိ ရိွဖို႕ပဲ ဆုေတာင္းပါ။
၁၄။ အခ်ိန္မွန္ပါ။ သူမ်ားကိုလည္း အခ်ိန္မွန္ဖို႕ တုိက္တြန္းပါ။
၁၅။ အတင္းမေျပာပါနွင့္။
၁၆။ ဘာမွ ဆံုးရူံးစရာ မရိွသူကုိ သတိထားပါ။
၁၇။ ခြင့္လႊတ္ျခင္းရဲ႕ စြမ္းအားကို ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ ေလွ်ာ့မတြက္ပါနဲ႕။
၁၈။ လူေရွ႕ ၊ သူေရွ႕ ခ်ီးက်ဴးပါ။
၁၉။ နွစ္ေယာက္ျခင္း ေဝဖန္ပါ။

၂၀။ အေပါင္းအေဖာ္ေတြကို ေမ့ထားလိုက္ပါ။ ျမင့္ျမတ္တဲ့ ကမၻာၾကီးကုိ ေျပာင္းလဲေစတဲ့ စိတ္ကူးေတြဟာ တစ္ေယာက္တည္း စဥ္းစားဥာဏ္ကြန္႕ျမဴးျခင္းကေန ေရာက္ရွိလာတာျဖစ္ပါတယ္။
၂၁။ အခ်ိန္မဆြဲပါနွင့္။ လုပ္ဖို႕လိုအပ္တဲ့ အခ်ိန္မွာ လုပ္ရမွာကို လုပ္ပါ။
၂၂။ မသိဘူးလို႕ ေျပာရမွာ မေၾကာက္ပါနွင့္။
၂၃။ ေတာင္းပန္ပါတယ္လို႕ ေျပာဖို႕ မေၾကာက္ပါနွင့္။
၂၄။ မေသခင္ေတြ႕ၾကံဳခံစား ခ်င္တဲ့အရာ နွစ္ဆယ့္ငါးခုကုိ စားရင္းလုပ္ ၊ ပုိက္ဆံအိတ္ထဲမွာ ေဆာင္ထား။ မၾကာခဏ ၾကည့္ေပးပါ။

Wednesday, 14 October 2015

The Subconscious Cannot Reason like Your Conscious Mind

Your subconscious mind cannot argue controversially. Hence, if you give it wrong suggestions, it will accept them as true and will proceed to bring them to pass as conditions, experiences, and events. All things that have happened to you are based on thoughts impressed on your subconscious mind through belief. If you have conveyed erroneous concepts to your subconscious mind, the sure method of overcoming them is by the repetition of constructive, harmonious thoughts frequently repeated which your subconscious mind accepts, thus forming new and healthy habits of thought and life, for your subconscious mind is the seat of habit.
The habitual thinking of your conscious mind establishes deep grooves in your subconscious mind. This is very favorable for you if your habitual thoughts are harmonious, peaceful, and constructive.

If you have indulged in fear, worry, and other destructive forms of thinking, the remedy is to recognize the omnipotence of your subconscious mind and decree freedom, happiness, and perfect health. Your subconscious mind, being creative and one with your divine source, will proceed to create the freedom and happiness, which you have earnestly decreed.

Tuesday, 13 October 2015

The Terms Objective and Subjective Mind Clarified

Your conscious mind is sometimes referred to as your objective mind because it deals with outward objects. The objective mind takes cognizance of the objective world. Its media of observation are your five physical senses. Your objective mind is your guide and director in your contact with your environment. You gain knowledge through your five senses. Your objective mind learns through observation, experience, and education. As previously pointed out, the greatest function of the objective mind is that of reasoning.

Suppose you are one of the thousands of tourists who come to Los Angeles annually. You would come to the conclusion that it is a beautiful city based upon your observation of the parks, pretty gardens, majestic buildings, and lovely homes. This is the working of your objective mind.

Your subconscious mind is oftentimes referred to as your subjective mind. Your subjective mind takes cognizance of its environment by means independent of the five senses. Your subjective mind perceives by intuition. It is the seat of your emotion and the storehouse of memory. Your subjective mind performs its highest functions when your objective senses are in abeyance. In a word, it is that intelligence which makes itself manifest when the objective mind is suspended or in a sleepy, drowsy state.

Your subjective mind sees without the use of the natural organs of vision. It has the capacity of clairvoyance and clairaudience. Your subjective mind can leave your body, travel to distant lands, and bring back information oftentimes of the most exact and truthful character. Through your subjective mind you can read the thoughts of others, read the contents of sealed envelopes and closed safes. Your subjective mind has the ability to apprehend the thoughts of others without the use of the ordinary objective means of communication. It is of the greatest importance that we understand the interaction of the objective and subjective mind in order to learn the true art of prayer.

Experiments by Psychologists

Innumerable experiments by psychologists and others on persons in the hypnotic state have shown that the subconscious mind is incapable of making selections and comparisons, which are necessary for a reasoning process. They have shown repeatedly that your subconscious mind will accept any suggestions, however false. Having once accepted any suggestion, it responds according to the nature of the suggestion given.

To illustrate the amenability of your subconscious mind to suggestion, if a practiced hypnotist suggests to one of his subjects that he is Napoleon Bonaparte, or even a cat or a dog, he will act out the part with inimitable accuracy. His personality becomes changed for the time being. He believes himself to be whatever the operator tells him he is.

A skilled hypnotist may suggest to one of his students in the hypnotic state that his back itches, to another that his nose is bleeding, to another that he is a marble statue, to another that he is freezing and the temperature is below zero. Each one will follow out the line of his particular suggestion, totally oblivious to all his surroundings, which do not pertain to his idea.

These simple illustrations portray clearly the difference between your conscious reasoning mind and your subconscious mind, which is impersonal, nonselective, and accepts as true whatever your conscious mind believes to be true. Hence, the importance of selecting thoughts, ideas, and premises, which bless, heal, inspire, and fill your soul with joy.

Conscious and Subconscious Terms Differentiated

You must remember that these are not two minds. They are merely two spheres of activity within one mind. Your conscious mind is the reasoning mind. It is that phase of mind, which chooses. For example, you choose your books, your home, and your partner in life. You make all your decisions with your conscious mind. On the other hand, without any conscious choice on your part, your heart is kept functioning automatically, and the process of digestion, circulation, and breathing are carried on by your subconscious mind through processes independent of your conscious control.

Your subconscious mind accepts what is impressed upon it or what you consciously believe. It does not reason things out like your conscious mind, and it does not argue with you controversially. Your subconscious mind is like the soil, which accepts any kind of seed, good or bad. Your thoughts are active and might be likened unto seeds. Negative, destructive thoughts continue to work negatively in your subconscious mind, and in due time will come forth into outer experience which corresponds with them.

Remember, your subconscious mind does not engage in proving whether your thoughts are good or bad, true or false, but it responds according to the nature of your thoughts or suggestions. For example, if you consciously assume something as true, even though it may be false, your subconscious mind will accept it as true and proceed to bring about results, which must necessarily follow, because you consciously assumed it to be true.

How Your Own Mind Works

You have a mind, and you should learn how to use it. There are two levels of your mind--the conscious or rational level, and the subconscious or irrational level. You think with your conscious mind, and whatever you habitually think sinks down into your subconscious mind, which creates according to the nature of your thoughts. Your subconscious mind is the seat of your emotions and is the creative mind. If you think good, good will follow; if you think evil, evil will follow. This is the way your mind works.

The main point to remember is once the subconscious mind accepts an idea, it begins to execute it. It is an interesting and subtle truth that the law of the subconscious mind works for good and bad ideas alike. This law, when applied in a negative way, is the cause of failure, frustration, and unhappiness. However, when your habitual thinking is harmonious and constructive, you experience perfect health, success, and prosperity.

Peace of mind and a healthy body are inevitable when you begin to think and feel in the right way. Whatever you claim mentally and feel as true, your subconscious mind will accept and bring forth into your experience. The only thing necessary for you to do is to get your subconscious mind to accept your idea, and the law of your own subconscious mind will bring forth the health, peace, or the position you desire. You give the command or decree, and your subconscious will faithfully reproduce the idea impressed upon it. The law of your mind is this: You will get a reaction or response from your subconscious mind according to the nature of the thought or idea you hold in your conscious mind.

Psychologists and psychiatrists point out that when thoughts are conveyed to your subconscious mind, impressions are made in the brain cells. As soon as your subconscious accepts any idea, it proceeds to put it into effect immediately. It works by association of ideas and uses every bit of knowledge that you have gathered in your lifetime to bring about its purpose. It draws on the infinite power, energy, and wisdom within you. It lines up all the laws of nature to get its way. Sometimes it seems to bring about an immediate solution to your difficulties, but at other times it may take days, weeks, or longer. . . . Its ways are past finding out.

Monday, 12 October 2015

Brief Summary of Ideas Worth Remembering

1. The treasure house is within you. Look within for the answer to your heart's desire.

2. The great secret possessed by the great men of all ages was their ability to contact and release the powers of their sub conscious mind. You can do the same.

3. Your subconscious has the answer to all problems. If you suggest to your subconscious prior to sleep, "I want to get up at 6 A.M.," it will awaken you at that exact time.

4. Your subconscious mind is the builder of your body and can heal you. Lull yourself to sleep every night with the idea of perfect health, and your subconscious, being your faithful servant, will obey you.

5. Every thought is a cause, and every condition is an effect.

6. If you want to write a book, write a wonderful play, give a better talk to your audience, convey the idea lovingly and feelingly to your subconscious mind, and it will respond accordingly.

7. You are like a captain navigating a ship. He must give the right orders, and likewise, you must give the right orders (thoughts and images) to your subconscious mind, which controls and governs all your experiences.

8. Never use the terms, "I can't afford it" or "I can't do this." Your subconscious mind takes you at your word and sees to it that you do not have the money or the ability to do what you want to do. Affirm, "I can do all things through the power of my subconscious mind."

9. The law of life is the law of belief. A belief is a thought in your mind. Do not believe in things to harm or hurt you. Believe in the power of your subconscious to heal, inspire, strengthen, and prosper you. According to your belief is it done unto you.

10. Change your thoughts, and you change your destiny.

How Her Subconscious Responded

A woman wrote me a few months ago as follows: "I am seventy-five years old, a widow with a grown family. I was living alone and on a pension. I heard your lectures on the powers of the subconscious mind wherein you said that ideas could be conveyed to the subconscious mind by repetition, faith, and expectancy. "I began to repeat frequently with feeling, 'I am wanted. I am happily married to a kind, loving, and spiritual minded man. I am secure!'

"I kept on doing this many times a day for about two weeks, and one day at the corner drugstore, I was introduced to a retired pharmacist. I found him to be kind, understanding, and very religious. He was a perfect answer to my prayer. Within a week he proposed to me, and now we are on our honeymoon in Europe. I know that the intelligence within my subconscious mind brought both of us together in divine order."

This woman discovered that the treasure house was within her. Her prayer was felt as true in her heart, and her affirmation sank down by osmosis into her subconscious mind, which is the creative medium. The moment she succeeded in bringing about a subjective embodiment, her subconscious mind brought about the answer through the law of attraction. Her deeper mind, full of wisdom and intelligence, brought both of them together in divine order.

Be sure that you think on whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. PHIL. 4:8.

Outstanding Differences and Modes of Operation

You will perceive the main differences by the following illustrations: The conscious mind is like the navigator or captain at the bridge of a ship. He directs the ship and signals orders to men in the engine room, who in turn control all the boilers, instruments, gauges, etc. The men in the engine room do not know where they are going; they follow orders. They would go on the rocks if the man on the bridge issued faulty or wrong instructions based on his findings with the compass, sextant, or other instruments. The men in the engine room obey him because he is in charge and issues orders, which are automatically obeyed. Members of the crew do not talk back to the captain; they simply carry out orders.

The captain is the master of his ship, and his decrees are carried out. Likewise, your conscious mind is the captain and the master of your ship, which represents your body, environment, and all your affairs. Your subconscious mind takes the orders you give it based upon what your conscious mind believes and accepts as true.

When you repeatedly say to people, "I can't afford it," then your subconscious mind takes you at your word and sees to it that you will not be in a position to purchase what you want. As long as you persist in saying, "I can't afford that car, that trip to Europe, that home, that fur coat or ermine wrap," you can rest assured that your subconscious mind will follow your orders, and you will go through life experiencing the lack of all these things.

Last Christmas Eve a beautiful young university student looked at an attractive and rather expensive traveling bag in a store window. She was going home to Buffalo, New York, for the holidays. She was about to say, "I can't afford that bag," when she recalled something she had heard at one of my lectures which was, "Never finish a negative statement; reverse it immediately, and wonders will happen in your life."

She said, "That bag is mine. It is for sale. I accept it mentally, and my subconscious sees to it that I receive it."

At eight o'clock Christmas Eve her fiancé presented her with a bag exactly the same as the one she had looked at and mentally identified herself with at ten o'clock the same morning. She had filled her mind with the thought of expectancy and released the whole thing to her deeper mind, which has the "know how" of accomplishment.

This young girl, a student at the University of Southern California, said to me, "I didn't have the money to buy that bag, but now I know where to find money and all the things I need, and that is in the treasure house of eternity within me."

Another simple illustration is this: When you say, "I do not like mushrooms," and the occasion subsequently comes that you are served mushrooms in sauces or salads, you will get indigestion because your subconscious mind says to you, "The boss (your conscious mind) does not like mushrooms." This is an amusing example of the outstanding differences and modes of operation of your conscious and subconscious minds.

A woman may say, "I wake up at three o'clock, if I drink coffee at night." Whenever she drinks coffee, her subconscious mind nudges her, as if to say, "The boss wants you to stay awake tonight."

Your subconscious mind works twenty-four hours a day and makes provisions for your benefit, pouring all the fruit of your habitual thinking into your lap.

Sunday, 11 October 2015

ကမၻာ႔နာမည္ၾကီးစာအုပ္ # ဆင္းရဲေဖေဖ .. ခ်မ္းသာေဖေဖ # (အတိုခ်ဳန္း)

ဂ်ပန္လူမ်ိဳး လုပ္ငန္းရွင္ Robert Kayo Sakiးေရးတဲ့ ..
ဆင္းရဲေဖေဖ ..ခ်မ္းသာေဖေဖ ..ဆိုတဲ့စာအုပ္ေလးဖတ္ဖူးၾကလား..
အဲဒီစာအုပ္ထဲမွာ ESBI ဆိုတဲ့ စီးပြားေရး ဒသနတစ္ခုကို ..ခ်ျပထားတယ္

ဘယ္ကေန ဘယ္လိုရလာလဲ မသိေပမယ့္..
အဲဒီ စာအုပ္ေလးက ကၽြန္ေတာ္ အၾကိဳက္ဆံုးနဲ႕ ..
ကၽြန္ေတာ့္ဘ၀ကို ဘာလုပ္ရမယ္ဆိုတာ လမ္းညႊန္ေပးခဲ့တဲ့ ..စာအုပ္ေလးပါ..

အဲဒီ စာအုပ္ေလးရဲ႕ စီးပြားေရး ဒသနကို အၾကမ္းဖ်င္း ရွင္းျပပါမယ္..

(E) ဆိုတာက Employee အလုပ္၀န္ထမ္းဘ၀နဲ႔ ၀င္ေငြရွာနည္း။ 
(S) ဆိုတာက Self Employee ..ဒါရိုက္ ဘာသာျပန္ရင္ေတာ့ ..
ကိုယ္တိုင္လုပ္တဲ့ အလုပ္ရွင္ပုံစံေပါ့ ..တစ္နည္းအားျဖင့္ ပညာရွင္..
ဆရာ၀န္ အင္ဂ်င္နီယာေတြ ..အႏုပညာရွင္ေတြ စသည္ျဖင့္ေပါ့ဗ်ာ
(B) ဆိုတာက Business Owner .. စီးပြားေရး လုပ္ငန္းရွင္ပါ၊ ၀န္ထမ္းေတြ စနစ္ေတြကုိသုံးၿပီး ၀င္ေငြရွာနည္း။
(I) ဆိုတာက Investor ..ရင္းႏွီးျမဳပ္ႏွံသူ.. ေငြကုိ ေငြနဲ႔ရင္းႏွီးျမဳပ္ႏွံၿပီး စီးပြားေရးလုပ္ငန္းေတြကုိ ေဆာင္ရြက္

အဲဒီေလးမ်ိဳးမွာ ..

E နဲ႕ S အမ်ိဳးအစားက အလုပ္နဲ႕လက္ မျပတ္ေအာင္ လုပ္ေနရတယ္..
အလုပ္နဲ႕ လက္ျပတ္တာနဲ႕ ..သူတို႕ရဲ႕ ၀င္ေငြက ရပ္တန္႕သြားတယ္

ဥပမာ..ေနမေကာင္းလို႕ အလုပ္မလုပ္ႏိုင္တဲ့အခါ..သူတို႕မွာ ၀င္ေငြမရွိၾကဘူး

ဒါေၾကာင့္ အဲဒီ အမ်ိဳးအစားႏွစ္္ခုထဲ အက်ံဳး၀င္ေနသူေတြက
အလုပ္ကို ကိုယ္တိုင္ပင္ပင္ပန္းပန္းနဲ႕လုပ္ျပီး ..ဘ၀ကို ရုန္းကန္ေနရသူေတြျဖစ္တယ္
သူတို႕ေတြရဲ႕ စိတ္ထားက ..
''ဒါ ငါ့လုပ္မွ ျဖစ္မွာ..ငါလုပ္တာ အေကာင္းဆံုးျဖစ္ရမယ္ဆိုတဲ့ စိတ္ထားမ်ိဳး ရွိတတ္ျပီး ..ကိုယ္တိုင္လုပ္မွ ေက်နပ္တတ္တဲ့ လူစားမ်ိဳးေတြ ျဖစ္တယ္''

B နဲ႕ I အမ်ိဳးအစားကေတာ့ ..အလုပ္ကို ကိုယ္တိုင္လုပ္စရာမလိုဘူး..

Business Owner တစ္ေယာက္ရဲ႕ အလုပ္ဆိုတာ ..
လုပ္ငန္းေတြ တည္ေထာင္ဖို႕နဲ႕ ..သင့္ေတာ္တဲ့ အလုပ္သမားေတြ..
စီမံကိန္းေတြ ခ်မွတ္ဖို႕ပဲ ျဖစ္တယ္..
သူတို႕ရဲ႕ တည္ေထာင္တဲ့ လုပ္ငန္းေတြ ပံုမွန္လည္ပတ္သြားတာနဲ႕ ..
တစ္ျပိဳင္နက္...သူတို႕ရဲ႕ အိပ္ကပ္ထဲကုိ ..ေငြေတြ သူ႕အလိုလို ၀င္လာလိမ့္မယ္...
လူက မိသားစုနဲ႕ အေပ်ာ္ခရီးထြက္ေနတာပဲျဖစ္ျဖစ္..
အနားယူအိပ္စက္ေနတာပဲျဖစ္ျဖစ္...
သူတို႕အလုပ္မလုပ္ေသာ္ျငား ၀င္ေငြကေတာ့ မျပတ္.. အိပ္ကပ္ထဲ စီးဆင္းေနမွာ ျဖစ္တယ္ ..

လုပ္ငန္းရွင္တစ္ေယာက္ရဲ႕ စိတ္ကူးနဲ႕ ခံယူခ်က္က ..
B နဲ႕ I လို မဟုတ္ပဲ .. ဒီအလုပ္ေတြကို ဘယ္သူေတြ လုပ္ႏိုင္မလဲ..
အသိပညာရွင္ အတတ္ပညာရွင္ေတြကို ခန္႕ျပီး လုပ္ငန္းလည္ပတ္ဖို႕အတြက္
ငါ လုပ္မွျဖစ္မယ္ဆိုတဲ့ အယူအဆနဲ႕ ကင္းေ၀းျပီး ..
ငါ့အစား ဘယ္သူလုပ္ေပးမလဲ ဆုိတဲ့ အေတြးနဲ႕ ဆံုးျဖတ္လုပ္ကိုင္ၾကတယ္

Investor ကေတာ့ ရွင္းပါတယ္...ရလာတဲ့ ေငြေတြကို ..
ထပ္မံျပီး အက်ိဳးအျမတ္ရွိမယ့္ လုပ္ငန္းေတြမွာ ရွယ္ယာ၀င္ျခင္း..
အျမတ္ရႏိုင္မယ့္ ကားေတြ ျခံေတြ ၀ယ္ယူျခင္း ျဖင့္..
အလုပ္မလုပ္ပဲ ..အခ်ိန္ကာလတစ္ခု ေစာင့္ရံုနဲ႕ ၀င္ေငြရရွိမွာျဖစ္ပါတယ္..

B နဲ႕ I ႏွစ္မ်ိဳးစလံုးက အခ်ိန္ၾကာလာတာနဲ႕အမွ်...
တိုးတက္လာမွာ ျဖစ္ျပီး .. သာယာတဲ့ဘ၀ကို ပိုင္ဆိုင္လာမွာ ျဖစ္တယ္..

ပထမ အလုပ္သမားနဲ႕ ပညာရွင္ေတြကေတာ့..
အိုမင္းလာတာနဲ႕အမွ် အလုပ္မလုပ္ႏိုင္ေတာ့တဲ့ အခ်ိန္က်ရင္..
ပင္ပန္းဆင္းရဲျခင္းနဲ႕ ၾကံဳေတြ႕လာရမွာ ျဖစ္တယ္..

အလုပ္မလုပ္ပဲ ပိုက္ဆံေတြရရင္ သိပ္ေကာင္းမွာပဲလို႕ ..
လူတိုင္းေတြးဖူးၾကမွာပါ.. လူတိုင္းလဲ အဲဒီဘ၀ကို လိုခ်င္ၾကမွာပါ..

ဒါဆို လူတိုင္း လုပ္ငန္းရွင္ၾကီးလုပ္ေတာ့မွာေပါ့လို႕ ေစာဒက တက္လို႕ရပါတယ္... ဘာလို႕ မလုပ္ၾကလဲ..
လုပ္ငန္းရွင္တစ္ေယာက္ျဖစ္ဖို႕ ေငြအရင္းအႏွီးလိုတယ္..
ေငြအရင္းအႏွီးရဖို႕ ကိုယ္တိုင္ သူမ်ား အလုပ္သမားလုပ္ရမယ္..
ေငြမ်ားမ်ားရဖို႕ ပညာမ်ားမ်ားသင္ရမယ္..

မွန္ပါတယ္...ဒီလို step by step တက္ၾကရတာပါပဲ ..
ဒါေပမယ့္ ..အဲဒီ တီယိုေကာ့စကီးဆိုတဲ့ လူကေတာ့ .......
အဲဒီအေတြးအေခၚေတြ သူ႕ေခါင္းထဲမွာ ေရာက္လာတဲ့ေန႕ကစျပီး.
ဆံုးျဖတ္ခ်က္တစ္ခုခ်လိုက္တယ္..

''ဘယ္ေတာ့မွ သူမ်ား အလုပ္သမား မလုပ္ဘူး'' တဲ့..

သူယူတဲ့ မိန္းမကလဲ..သူ႕ဆႏနဲ႕ သူ႕အယူအဆကို လက္ခံျပီး..
ႏွစ္ေယာက္လံုး ပညာတတ္ေတြျဖစ္ေပမယ့္..
ခုခ်ိန္ ကုမဏီတစ္ခုခုမွာ ၀င္လုပ္ရင္...ၾကီးမားတဲ့ လစာကို ခံစားရမယ္ဆိုတာ သိသိၾကီးနဲ႕ ..အပင္ပန္းခံ အဆင္းရဲခံျပီး ..
ကိုယ္ပိုင္ လုပ္ငန္းထူေထာင္ဖို႕ ..ၾကိဳးစားခဲ့ၾကတယ္..

ေငြဆိုတဲ့ အရင္းအႏွီးမရွိပဲ ကိုယ္ပိုင္လုပ္ငန္းေထာင္လို႕ရပါတယ္..တဲ့
တစ္ပိုင္တစ္ႏိုင္ေလးပဲျဖစ္ျဖစ္...ကိုယ့္စိတ္ကူး ကိုယ့္ရဲ႕ပညာတစ္ခုခုနဲ႕
လုပ္ငန္းတစ္ခုလံုးကို ကိုယ္တိုင္ ဦးစီး စီမံႏိုင္တဲ့ အလုပ္မ်ိဳးကို
လုပ္ႏိုင္ျပီဆိုတာနဲ႕ .. သင္ဟာ လုပ္ငန္းရွင္တစ္ဦးျဖစ္ခြင့္ရွိပါတယ္
လို႕ ဆိုပါတယ္..

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ခု ကၽြန္ေတာ္တို႕ ႏိုင္ငံရပ္ျခားမွာ ေနေနတဲ့ အလုပ္သမားေတြဟာ
ေငြရဖို႕အတြက္ ... တန္ဖိုးရွိတဲ့အခ်ိန္ေတြ .. ထက္ျမက္ေနတုန္း ဦးေႏွာက္ေတြကို ေပးဆပ္ျပီး ... ခႏာကိုယ္ ပင္ပန္းစြာနဲ႕ ေပးဆပ္ေနရတာပါ

ဒါေၾကာင့္ ...

လူငယ္ေတြအေနနဲ႕ ...ကိုယ့္တိုင္းျပည္မွာေနျပီး ..
ကိုယ္ပိုင္ ဆံုးျဖတ္ခ်က္နဲ႕ ကိုယ္ပိုင္လုပ္ငန္းေတြ ထူေထာင္ႏိုင္ဖို႕ ၾကိဳးစားၾကပါ... ကၽြန္ေတာ္ ယံုၾကည္ထားတာ တစ္ခုက..

ကိုယ္ပိုင္လုပ္ငန္းလုပ္ေနသူ တစ္ေယာက္အေနနဲ႕ ..
တစ္ခ်ိန္ခ်ိန္မွာ ၾကီးပြားခ်မ္းသာဖို႕ အခြင့္အလမ္းက ..သူမ်ားအလုပ္လုပ္ေနတဲ့ သူတစ္ေယာက္ထက္ ပိုျပီး သာတယ္
လက္ရွိ ခရိုနီေတြ သူေဌးေတြက သူမ်ား အလုပ္လုပ္ျပီး ..ခ်မ္းသာလာတာ မဟုတ္တာေတာ့ ေသခ်ာတယ္..

ခု အမ်ိဳးသားေရး အရလဲ ..ကၽြန္ေတာ့္တို႕ ျမန္မာလူမ်ိဳး လုပ္ငန္းရွင္ေတြ အမ်ားၾကီးလိုအပ္ေနတယ္

လူငယ္ေတြ တန္ဖိုးရွိတဲ့ အခ်ိန္ေတြကို ေကာင္းေကာင္းအသံုးခ်ျပီး..
ထက္ျမက္တဲ့ ဦးေႏွာက္ေတြနဲ႕ ..
လုပ္ငန္းရွင္ဆိုတဲ့ ဘ၀ကို ေလွ်ာက္လွမ္းႏိုင္ပါေစ ဆုေတာင္းရင္း..

Credit to: Sir' ၾကယ္

Monday, 5 October 2015

The Power Of Positive Thinking

A positive person anticipates happiness, health and success.
အျပဳသေဘာေဆာင္တဲ့ ပုဂၢိဳလ္ဟာ ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္မႈ, က်န္းမာေရးႏွင့္ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈကို ႀကိဳတင္ေမ်ာ္မွန္းလို႔ရတယ္။

A positive person believes he can overcome any obstacle and difficulty.
အျပဳသေဘာေဆာင္တဲ့ ပုဂိၢဳလ္ဟာ အတားအဆီးေတြနဲ႔ အခက္ခဲေတြကို ေက်ာ္လြားႏိုင္မယ္လို႔ ယံုႀကည္မႈရွိတယ္။

Wednesday, 15 July 2015

Success ေအာင္ျမင္မႈ

+ See your goal
သင့္ရဲ႕ ပန္းတိုင္ကို အာရံုစိုက္ႀကည့္ပါ
+ Understand your obstacles
သင့္ရဲ႕ အခက္အခဲကို နားလည္ပါ
+ Create your positive mindset pic
အျပဳသေဘာေဆာင္တဲ့ စိတ္ထားကို ဖန္တီးပါ
+ Clear your mind of self-doubt
သင့္ရဲ႕ သံသယကို ဖယ္ထုတ္ရွင္းလင္းပါ
+ Embrace the challenges
စိန္ေခၚမႈေတြကို လက္ခံပါ
+ Stay on track
လမ္းေႀကာင္းေပၚမွာရွိေနပါ
+ Show the world you can do it.
သင္လုပ္ႏိုင္ေႀကာင္း ျပသပါ

Sunday, 5 July 2015

ခ်စ္တဲ့ေမေမ

လြန္ခဲ့တဲ့ ၁၀ ႏွစ္ေက်ာ္က အဂၤလိပ္ Article တစ္ခုထဲက ဖတ္မိခဲ့တာကို ကိုျပန္လည္ စဥ္းစားပံုေဖာ္ျပီးဇာတ္အိမ္ဖြဲ႔ ေဖာ္ႀကည့္တာပါ။

သခ်ၤဳင္းမွ က်န္မ ျပန္လာျပီး အိမ္ကိုေရာက္ေတာ့ ေျခပစ္လက္ပစ္ ကုတင္ေပၚလဲလိုက္တယ္။
ရင္ထဲမွာက ဟာတာတာ ႀကီးနဲ႔ေပါ႔။ တစ္စံုတစ္ခု လိုေနသလို။ တစ္စံုတစ္ခု ဆံုးရႈံးသလို ခံစားခ်က္နဲ႔ေပါ႔။
ကိုယ့္ကိုကိုယ္ ေမားပန္းျပီး အိပ္ေပ်ာ္သြားမယ္ ထင္ေပမဲ့ အိပ္မေပ်ာ္ပါ။
ဒီေန႔ အေမရုပ္ကလပ္ကို ခ်ျပီးျပန္လာတာေလ။

ဒီလိုနဲ႔ ဟိုေတာင္ေတြး၊ ေျမာက္ေတြးနဲ႔ အိပ္လို႔မရျခင္းအတူတူေတာ့ အေမအခန္းထဲကို ဝင္မိလ်က္သား ျဖစ္သြားတယ္။
အေမအိပ္ရာက ေသသပ္သပ္ရပ္စြာနဲ႔ရွိေနတယ္။
ဒီအထိ အေမနဲ႔ပတ္သက္လို႔ ထူးထူးျခားျခား ခံစားခ်က္မရွိေသးဘူး။

ဒီလိုနဲ႔ အေမအိပ္ရာေပၚတက္ထိုင္ရင္း လက္ကအလိုလို ေခါင္းအံုးကို လန္ေလာမိတယ္။
ေခါင္းအံုးေအာက္မွာ စာတစ္ေစာင္ထြက္လာတယ္။

ခ်စ္သမီး
ခ်စ္သမီး အေမကို အနမ္းကေလးျမန္ျမန္ လာေပးပါ။ အေမရဲ႕ ပါးေရတြန္႔ခ်ိန္ထိ မေစာင့္ပါနဲ႔လား။
ခ်စ္သမီးေလး အေမကို ျမန္ျမန္လာေပြ႔ဖက္ထားေပးပါ။
သမီးရဲ႕ အထိအေတြ႔ကို မခံစားႏိုင္တဲ့အခ်ိန္ထိ မေစာင့္ပါနဲ႔လား။
ခ်စ္သမီး အေမနဲ႔ ရင္းႏွီးေႏြးေထြးစြာ ေနေပးပါလား။
အေမမျမင္ႏိုင္ေတာ့တဲ့ အခ်ိန္ထိ မေစာင့္ပါနဲ႔လား။
ခ်စ္သမီး အေမကို ခ်စ္တယ္လို႔ တစ္ခြန္းေလာက္ေျပာပါလား။
ေသျခင္းျမစ္ျခားသြားျပီး အေမမႀကားႏိုင္တဲ့အခ်ိန္ထိ မေစာင့္ပါနဲ႔လား။

ဒီစာကို က်န္မဖတ္ျပီးခ်ိန္မွာ ႏွလံုးသားတစ္ခုလံုး ျပဳတ္ထြက္သြားျပီးလို႔ေတာင္ ခံစားလိုက္ရတယ္။
က်န္မက အေမရဲ႕ ခံစားခ်က္ ဘာတစ္ခုမွ နားလည္ခံစားမေပးခဲ့ပါလာားဆိုတာသိလိုက္ရတယ္။
က်န္မက ေလာကမွာ လူအမ်ားအားက်ရေလာက္တဲ့ ေအာင္ျမင္ေနတဲ့ စီးပြားေရးလုပ္ငန္းရွင္တစ္ဦးပါ။
အျပင္ေလာကမွာ ေအာင္ျမင္စြာရပ္တည္ႏိုင္တဲ့ အမ်ိဳးသမီးပါ။

က်န္မျပန္ျမင္ေယာင္မိပါတယ္။
က်န္မကို အေမက အျမဲတမ္း နီးနီးကပ္ကပ္နဲ႔ က်န္မလိုမယ္ထင္တဲ့ အရာေတြကို ေအာက္ေျခသိမ္းလုပ္ေပးခဲ့တယ္။
တစ္ခါတစ္ေလအျပင္က ညနက္မွ ျပန္လာေသာ္လဲ အေမက တံခါးေစာင့္ဖြင့္ေပးခဲ့တယ္။
အေမက တစ္ခုခုေျပာဖို႔ ဟန္ျပင္လိုက္တိုင္း အေမေရ သြားအိပ္ေတာ့ ဘာလို႔ ဒီခ်ိန္ထိမအိပ္ေသးတာလဲ။
သမီးအရမ္းေမာတယ္။ အိပ္ေတာ့မယ္ဆိုျပီး အခန္းထဲကိုပဲ ဦးတည္ခဲ့တယ္။
တစ္ခါတစ္ေလ က်န္မအျပင္ကျပန္လာရင္ အေမက သမီး ထမင္းစားပါ။ သမီးႀကိဳက္တတ္တာကို အေမ ခ်က္ထားေပးတယ္။
သမီးနဲ႔အတူစားဖို႔ ေစာင့္ေနတယ္။
အေမကလဲ ကိုယ့္ဖာသာကိုယ္စားပါလား။ သမီးဒီေန႔ စိတ္အရမ္း ရႈပ္ေထြးေနတယ္။ သမီး အခန္းထဲဝင္ေတာ့မယ္။ အေမစားျပီး အိပ္ေတာ့။
တစ္ခါတစ္ေလ အိမ္မွာ မိတ္ေဆြေတြနဲ႔ ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္စြာေနေနခ်ိန္ အေမက ထြက္လာျပီး သမီး ဘာေတြလိုအပ္လဲ။ ဘာလုပ္ေပးရမလဲ လာေမးရင္ အရမ္းစိတ္ဆိုးျပီး အေမကိုေအာ္ခဲ့တယ္။ အေမကိုယ့္ဖာသာေနပါတဲ့။ ဒါကိုလဲ အေမက ဘာမွမေျပာပဲ ထြက္သြားခဲ့တယ္။
((က်န္မေလ အေမအေပၚဘာတစ္ခုမွ အသိအမွတ္မျပဳခဲ့ပါလား သိလိုက္ခ်ိန္မွာ ရင္ထဲက တစ္ဆစ္ဆစ္နာက်င္စြာခံစားလိုက္ရတယ္။ တန္ဖိုးထားရမွန္းကိုမသိလိုက္တဲ့ တန္ဖိုးႀကီးတဲ့ အရာတစ္ခု ဆံုးရႈံးလိုက္မွပဲ သိလိုက္ခ်ိန္မွာ က်န္မအရမ္းေနာက္က်သြားျပီး။))

က်န္မက ဒီစာကို လာမဲ့ Sunday မွာ Church မွာ ဖတ္ျပရင္း က်န္မလိုလူေတြ ေနာင္တနဲ႔ မက်န္ခဲ့ဖို႔ ေတာင္းဆိုလိုက္တယ္။
Church လာတက္တဲ့သူ အေယာက္ ၂၀၀ ေက်ာ္လိုက္ရွိတယ္။
က်န္မ အေမေရးခဲ့တဲ့စာကို ဖတ္ျပျပီးခ်ိန္မွာ က်န္မအပါအဝင္ လူ အားလံုး မ်က္ရည္မက်တဲ့သူမရွိပါ။
ေနာက္ျပီး လူေတာ္ေတာ္မ်ားမ်ားက က်န္မကို လာေပြ႔ဖက္ျပီး ႏွစ္သိပ္ႀကတယ္။
ဒါေပမဲ့ က်န္မစိတ္က မေျပႏိုင္ပါဘူး။
အေမသာလာေပြ႔ဖက္ျပီး ႏွစ္သိပ္ရင္ ဘယ္ေလာက္ေကာင္းမလဲေပါ႔။

က်န္ေတာ္စာေရးေနစဥ္မွာပဲ ေတြးမိတယ္။
က်န္ေတာ္တို႔ သားသမီးေတြဟာ မိဘေတြဆီက အမ်ားႀကီး ေမ်ွာလင့္ေတာင္းတျပီး ျပန္လည္တုန္႔ျပန္တတ္တဲ့ စိတ္ေတြနည္းႀကတယ္။
မိဘေတြကလဲလူပဲေလ။
သူတို႔လဲ သားသမီးေတြဆီက ႀကင္နာေႏြးေထြးမႈကို လိုခ်င္မွာပဲ။
ဒါေႀကာင့္ က်န္ေတာ္တို႔ သားသမီးေတြ ကိုယ့္ကိုျပင္ဆင္ရင္း မိဘရွိေနခ်ိန္ ေႏြးေထြးစာ ဆက္ဆံေပါင္းသင္းပါ။

သင့္ဘဝမွာ အမွန္တကယ္ တန္ဖိုးရွိတဲ့အရာကို တန္ဖိုးထားတတ္ဖို႔ မေမ့ပါနဲ႔။
Don't forget to appreciate what the most precious one in your life.

Creativity တိုးတက္ရန္ နာမည္ေက်ာ္အဆိုအမိန္႔မ်ား

1. If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got. [Albert Einstein]
(၁) သင္အရင္ကလုပ္ေနက်အရာေတြပဲလုပ္ေနရင္ သင္အရင္ကရေနက်အရာေတြပဲ ရမွာေပါ့။ 

2. Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. [Will Rogers]
(၂) လမ္းေၾကာင္းမွန္ေပၚေရာက္ေနသည့္တိုင္ေအာင္၊ အဲ့ဒိမွာပဲထိုင္ေနရင္ေတာ့ ေက်ာ္အတက္ခံရလိမ့္မယ္။

3. Minds are like parachutes; they work best when open. 
[T. Dewar]
(၃) စိတ္ဆိုတာ ေလထီးလိုပဲ၊ ဖြင့္လိုက္ေတာ့မွ အေကာင္းဆံုးစအလုပ္လုပ္တယ္။ 

4. You cannot discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. [Andre Gide]
(၄) ကမ္းေၿခကိုၿမင္ေနရတဲ့ ၿမင္ကြင္းကို တြယ္တာေနသ၍ေတာ့ မင္းဘယ္ေတာ့မွ သမုဒၵရာအသစ္ေတြကို ၿမင္ဖူးမွာမဟုတ္ဘူး။ 

5. It is not how many ideas you have. It’s how many you make happen.
(၅) သင့္မွာ အိုင္ဒီယာေတြဘယ္ေလာက္မ်ားမ်ားရွိတယ္ဆိုတာ အေရးမၾကီးဘူး။ အေရးၾကီးတာက သင္ဘယ္ေလာက္မ်ားမ်ား ေအာင္ၿမင္ေအာင္လုပ္ေဆာင္ခဲ့ၿပီးပါၿပီလဲ?

ေအာင္ျမင္သူေတြက Comfort Zone ထဲမွာပဲမေနဘူး။

ဒီအခ်က္ကေအာင္ၿမင္သူနဲ႔ က်ရႈံးသူကိုေတာ္ေတာ္ေလး
ခြဲၿခားနုိင္တဲ့အခ်က္ပါ။
က်ရံႈးသူေတြဟာသူတို႔ရဲ႕ Comfort Zone ထဲကထြက္ေလ့မရွိပါဘူး။ 
Comfort Zone ဆိုတာကို အရင္ရွင္းၿပပါမယ္။
Comfort Zone ဆိုတာသင္သက္ေတာင့္သက္သာရွိတယ္လို႔ ထင္တဲ့ေနရာမ်ိဳးပါ။
ဥပမာ သင္ကလူေရွ႕သူေရွ႕မွာစကားထြက္ေၿပာရတာ ထက္ ထုိင္ၿပီးၾကည့္ရတာကိုပဲသေဘာက်တယ္ဆိုပါစို႔။
အဲ့လိုထိုင္ေနတာဟာသင့္ကိုပိုၿပီးသက္ေတာင့္သက္သာ ၿဖစ္ေစတယ္ဆိုရင္ အဲ့ဒါဟာ သင့္ရဲ့ Comfort Zone ပါ။
လူေတြေရွ႕မွာစကား ထြက္ေၿပာဖို႔အခြင့္အေရးရွိတိုင္း သင္ၿငင္းပယ္ပါလိမ့္မယ္။
ဘာလို႔လည္း ဆိုေတာ့ အဲဒါကိုသင္လုပ္နိုင္တယ္လို႔ မယံုၾကည္လို႔ပါပဲ။
ဒါဟာဥပမာတစ္ခုအေနနဲ႔ေဖာ္ၿပတာ ၿဖစ္ပါတယ္။
အၿခားအရာေတြမွာလည္း သင့္အတြက္ Comfort Zone ဆိုတာရွိေနတတ္ပါတယ္။
ဒါေပမယ့္ေအာင္ၿမင္တဲ့သူေတြကေတာ့ Comfort Zone ထဲကထြက္ဖို႔ၾကိဳးစားတတ္ပါတယ္။
သူတို႔စိတ္ထဲက“မင္းဒါကုိေတာ့မလုပ္နုိင္ပါဘူးကြာ”ဆိုတဲ့စကားကုိ လ်စ္္လ်ဴရႈၿပီး “ငါလုပ္နုိင္တယ္”ဆိုတဲ့ယံုၾကည္ ခ်က္နဲ႔ Comfort Zone ထဲကထြက္ေလ့ရွိပါတယ္။

Saturday, 4 July 2015

ကိုယ္ထူးကိုယ္ခ်ြန္သမားအတြက္

* ကိုယ့္အား ကိုယ္ကိုး *
       သင့္အား မည္သူမ်ွ အေပၚအျမင့္သို႔ေရာက္ ေအာင္ ႀကိဳးျဖင့္ဆြဲမတင္ႏို္င္။
       ႀကိဳးကို ႀကာႀကာဆုပ္ကိုင္မ ထားႏိုင္ေသာ အေႀကာင္းေႀကာင့္ပင္ သင္ျပဳတ္က်မည္ျဖစ္၏။
       သို႔ေသာ္ ကိုယ့္ေျခေထာက္ေပၚ ကိုယ္ရပ္၍ တက္လ်ွင္ကား အျမင့္ဆံုးေတာင္ထိပ္သို႔ ေရာက္ေအာင္ပင္ သင္တက္ႏိုင္မည္ျဖစ္၏။
                                            - ဘရန္ဒိုက္စ္

* ေကာင္းလည္းကိုယ္ ဆိုးလဲကိုယ္ *
       လူသညိမိမိကိုယ္ကို ဖန္တီး၏။ လူသည္ မိမိကိုယ္ကို ေကာင္းေအာင္လည္းလုပ္ႏိုင္၏။ ဆိုးေအာင္လည္းလုပ္ႏိုင္၏။ ေကာင္းလိုတိုးတက္လိုလ်ွင္ မိမိစဥ္းစားေတြးေတာမႈလမ္းေႀကာင္းကို ေကာင္းမည့္ဘက္၊ တိုးတက္မည့္ဘက္သို႔ ဦးလွည့္ေပးရလိမ့္မည္။ မိမိကိုယ္ မိမိ ဘဝစြမ္းရည္တိုးတက္ေရးအတြက္ ထိန္းေက်ာင္းပဲ့ကိုင္သည့္ ပါရဂူအျဖစ္ ခန္႔အပ္ႏိုင္ျပီးဆိုလ်ွင္ ေတာက္ေလ်ွာက္ တိုးတက္သြားမွာ ေသျခာေပသည္။

* ဖန္တီးသူ မိမိ *
       ေလာက၏ မတူညီေသာ က႑အသီးသီးတြင္ ေအာင္ျမင္မႈရရွိခဲ့သူတို႔ တူညီစြာလက္ခံယံုႀကည္ထားႀက သည့္ အခ်က္တစ္ရပ္ရွိသည္။ ယင္းကား မိမိ၏ ႀကမၼာ အဆိုးအေကာင္းကို မိမိသာဖန္တီးႏိုင္သည္ဟူ၍ ျဖစ္ပါသည္။

ေျပာဆိုတတ္ပါေစ

ဂ်က္နဲ ့ မက္စ္တို ့ဟာ တစ္ေန ့ေတာ့ ဘုရားရွိခိုးျပီး ျပန္လာၾကတယ္။ အျပန္လမ္းမွာ ဂ်က္က ဆုေတာင္းေနတုန္းမွာ ေဆးလိပ္ေသာက္ရင္ သင့္ေတာ္ပါ့မလား ဆိုျပီးေတြးျပီး မက္စ္ကိုေမးေတာ့ မက္စ္က ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီးကို ေမးၾကည့္ပါလား လို ့ျပန္ေျဖလိုက္တယ္။ ဒါနဲ ့ပဲ ဂ်က္က ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီးဆီကို သြားျပီးေမးလိုက္တယ္။

ဂ်က္။      ။ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီးခင္ဗ်ာ။ ဆုေတာင္းေနတုန္းမွာ တပည့္ေတာ္ ေဆးလိပ္ေသာက္လို ့ရပါသလား

ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီး။      ။ မရဘူး။ ဒါဟာ ဘာသာတရားကို မေလးစားရာ ေရာက္တယ္။

ဒါနဲ ့ဂ်က္က ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီး သူ ့ကို ျပန္ေျပာလိုက္တဲ့စကားကို မက္စ္ကို ျပန္ေျပာျပလိုက္တယ္။ မက္စ္က အံ့ၾသစရာမရွိပါဘူးကြာ။ မင္းေမးေနတာကိုက မွားေနတာကြ။ ငါေမးၾကည့္လိုက္မယ္။ မက္စ္က ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီးဆီကို သြားျပီးေမးလိုက္တယ္။

မက္စ္။    ။ ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီးခင္ဗ်ာ။ ေဆးလိပ္ေသာက္ေနတုန္းမွာ တပည့္ေတာ္ ဆုေတာင္းလို ့ရပါသလား။

ဘုန္းေတာ္ၾကီး။      ။ ရတာေပါ့။ ရတာေပါ့။

ေျပာခ်င္တာကေတာ့ ကိုယ္ရလိုက္တဲ့အေျဖေတြက ကိုယ္ေမးတဲ့ေမးခြန္းေလးေတြေပၚမွာမူတည္ေနတယ္။ ဥပမာ- ကြ်န္မခြင့္ယူေနတုန္းမွာ ဒီဖေရာဂ်က္နဲ ့ ပက္သက္ျပီး အလုပ္လုပ္လို ့ရမလား ဆိုတဲ့ေမးခြန္းနဲ ့ဒီဖေရာဂ်က္လုပ္ေနတုန္းမွာ ကြ်န္မခြင့္ယူလို ့ရမလားလို ့ေမးရင္ ဘယ္ေမးခြန္းရဲ ့အေျဖေၾကာင့္ ခြင့္ရနိုင္ မလဲ။ ဒါေၾကာင့္ သူငယ္ခ်င္းတို ့လဲ ကိုယ္ေျပာေနတဲ့စကားေလးေတြ၊ ကိုယ္ေမးေနတဲ့ေမးခြန္းေလးေတြအတြက္ တုန္ ့ျပန္မႈေကာင္းလိုခ်င္ရင္ ေသခ်ာစဥ္းစား ဥာဏ္နဲ ့ယွဥ္ျပီး သူတပါး နာေပ်ာ္ဖြယ္၊ လုပ္ေပးခ်င္စဖြယ္ ျဖစ္တဲ့ စကားမ်ိဳး၊ ေမးခြန္းမ်ိဳးေလးေတြကို ေျပာၾကရေအာင္ေနာ္။
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